There comes a time when you must un-become everything you are, in order to be.
You must undress, unlearn, unravel and unframe the
ideas, thought forms and beliefs you have accepted about who you are in order to create yourself anew.
— Dorota Stańczyk
 

The greatest relationship we have in life is with ourselves. On the journey to discovering our full potential, embracing self-love is the most powerful step in building self-esteem, confidence, and finding happiness.

This book teaches you how to recognize and unravel limiting beliefs, dispel overthinking, and release feelings of guilt and shame—factors that contribute to a sense of inadequacy. It takes you on a journey of self-discovery, proving that with effort, any trauma can be healed.

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Dorota Stanczyk has done something quite courageous here. This author has shared her own daily encounters, her own moment-to-moment experience, her own passages through the labyrinth of life, and the realizations they have brought her. She’s done this so that, should you notice that you’ve strayed from the path to your happiness, veered into the woods, and suddenly “can’t see the forest for the trees,” you’ll discover that the author has gently hung signs everywhere that will lead you out of the thicket. Authors who are willing to be this vulnerable, this honest, this open about their own early missteps, previous misunderstandings, and…well, yes, failures…do not come along very often. I urge you to take advantage of the wonderful wisdom you will find here, for by delving into Dorota’s life you may recognize bits of yourself - but just in time to avoid some of the not-so-welcome outcomes she describes. There are a lot of things I wish someone had told me when I was young that I didn’t come to understand until I was older. Much older. This book is full of them.’ - Neale Donald Walsch, author of Conversations with God

‘One of the best-written works on self-awareness.’ - Mo Gawdat, author of Solve for Happy, former chief business officer for Google X

‘I truly recommend to read my dear friend's Dorota Stańczyk’s book on (Re)-Create your Self. It's a true masterpiece on self-love and self-awareness that are the keys to unlocking your true gifts and creating fulfilling relationships. A Must-read book to access with ease your true inner power.’ - Dame Marie Diamond, Feng Shui Master, starring in The Secret

‘Dorota’s journey is not only inspiring but also empowering. Her openness, honesty and boldness to reveal the most vulnerable parts of herself and her journey allow us to do the same for ourselves. This book teaches us to love, to accept, to own and to transform. I highly recommend it!’ - Jim Kwik, author of Limitless: Upgrade Your Brain, Learn Anything Faster, and Unlock Your Expectional Life.

‘If you care deeply about your relationships and seek long-term happiness then put this book on your required reading list. You will learn to empower yourself, speak your truth, become more confident but mostly you will be guided how to connect to your needs, desires and dreams and how to fulfil them. This book will give you the boost you need to believe in yourself.’ - Jason Goldberg, Author of Prison Break

‘Dorota is one of the powerful, creatively nuanced and compassionate voices of our generation. She has a way of translating relevant and complex philosophies and making them accessible and tangible. Take the time to engage with her work, we need visionaries of the New Earth like Dorota to cultivate and develop cultures and ways of being for the future of humanity.’ – Nicole Gibson, Founder of Love Out Loud and Former Australian Federal Commissioner of Mental Health

Real transformation is giving up one form before you take on another; it is our willingness to be nothing for a while.
— Dorota Stańczyk